Favorite Quotations
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Leo Buscaglia
Leo Buscaglia's Love
The hardest battle you're ever going to fight is the battle to be just you. If one wishes to know love, one must live love, in action. Thoughts, readings and discourse on love are of value only as they present questions to be acted upon. Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you will find that you are left holding only yourself. Too often we under estimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. A single rose can be my garden…a single friend, my world. It is paradoxical that many educators and parents still differentiate between a time for learning and a time for play without seeing the vital connection between them. Happiness comes only when we push our brains and hearts to the farthest reaches of which we are capable. The purpose of life is to matter—to count, to stand for something, to have it make so difference that we lived at all. Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Don’t overanaylze your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can one be nurtured by genuineness. A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. See people as good and beautiful, even when they seem to be trying hard not to appear so.
We all need each other.
"The easiest thing to be in the world is you. The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don't let them put you in that position." ~ Leo Buscaglia